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All that plus a parade of sheep

All that plus a parade of sheep

Madrid

We are now in Madrid, flying in from Berlin last week. Here we’ve been joined by my brother-in-law Mat who’s been in London for a couple of days while we’ve been gallivanting around Europe. And in Madrid we’ve met up with Goldie, Nat’s second daughter, who is living and studying in Madrid.

It’s true I’m missing Don terribly – I’m not used to travelling without him – but it’s definitely special to be with my sister and her family who I’m incredibly close to.

Madrid has been a chance to stay in one place for a while. We have a lovely Airbnb with plenty of room for all of us. We’ve stocked the kitchen with essentials, checked out the local markets, restaurants and cafes and worked out the best walking routes to different parts of the city.

The weather has been beautifully warm and sunny, with crisp chilly mornings. We’ve walked Parque de El Retiro, the beautiful Madrid park, had dinner at the oldest restaurant in the world, sampled food at the Mercado de San Miguel and visited Córdoba for the day. Last night Mat, Peppa and Goldie went to see Atlético de Madrid play RC Deportivo de A Coruña at Metropolitano stadium.

Today we wandered Madrid’s massive outdoor markets, El Rastro. I’ve written before about how sometimes you end up at the right place at the right time. As we left the markets there were people lining the streets – lots of people. A quick google told us it was the annual Fiesta de la trashumancia, where shepherds and hundreds of sheep walk through the streets of Madrid to highlight Spain’s ancient free range grazing practices and the threat to the corridors the shepherds use.

Of course we stopped at a cafe for cheesecake and to wait for the sheep to come down the street.

And down the street they came – all 1,250 of them, shepherds throughout to guide the way. It was a beautiful spectacle and remarkably calm. Nobody pushed to see the sheep, there was no shouting or cheering, just happy conversation and appreciation from the locals and tourists watching. The shepherds were smiling and waving and taking extra care of their sheep. It was an unexpected highlight of the day.

What an extraordinary city Madrid is; we are loving every second of it!

Family history

Family history

Poznań

Over the past few months we’ve been collecting bits and pieces of our Dad’s family history. Our family ancestors were from what was Prussia, coming to Australia by boat in 1870.

Poland has gone through many changes, and records have been lost or destroyed. Nat found a researcher here in Poznań to help search available records, and to take us to visit the areas where our family lived.

It’s impossible to find actual homes even if they did still exist, however churches, town halls and cemeteries provided better opportunities. Our first stop north of Poznań was the small village of Murowana Goślina, where we found the church our great, great, great grandparents Johann and Anna Maria were married.

It’s quite surreal to stand in the place where your family lived so long ago and so far away. A whole other life to ours. A little further north is Skoki where they lived and where Julius, their fourth child, and our great, great grandfather was born.

Most Evangelical churches from Prussian times have fallen into disrepair or been demolished, with the land then used to build Catholic churches. We ran out of luck after Murowana Goślina. In Piła where Julius and his wife Juliane lived before they left for Australia we could only stand in an empty square and imagine the church where they’d married.

We visited several local towns and villages where our family members had ties, but perhaps the most entertaining visits of all were the cemeteries.

The first was in Oleśnica, a tiny dot on the map near Chodzież. All that was there was a grand manor where Johann had worked and was buried after his death. A man there saw us poking around and spoke rapid fire Polish to Lukasz for at least ten minutes. We waited, eager to hear what he’d had to say.

‘He said the cemetery is this way,’ Lukasz told us, before setting off into the forest. We were learning quickly that Lukasz was not one for conversation.

He forged ahead into the valley, paying little heed to us skidding down the muddy hill behind him, through the leaves and debris, into a wet ravine and clambering up the other side. It was obvious Lukasz was solely focused on finding the cemetery site. When we eventually caught up, muddy and covered in leaves, we found him standing in a flat mossy area with the sunken holes of old crypts. An unmarked graveyard abandoned and forgotten, but somehow beautiful with the sunbeams shooting through the trees and hitting the bright green moss. Somewhere here lay Johann.

The second cemetery was in Romanowo Górne, where Juliane lived and where her parents Gottlieb and Wilhelmina were buried. Again the Lutheran cemetery was left abandoned and a new Catholic church and cemetery established nearby.

By this time it seemed Lukasz had forgotten we even existed. He was off into the scrub, and we valiantly dived in after him.

There was no path, just more spindly trees, moss and muddy slopes.

Peppa received a message from her dad back in London while we were traipsing through the bushes ‘Where are you?’ to which Peppa replied ‘No idea’ and sent him a picture of the empty forest.

‘Serial killer territory,’ he responded, and went back to his beer. Peppa went back to crashing through the forest.

This site was a tangled mess of trees. At one point I grabbed hold of an unattached branch to steady myself, fell backwards, caught my ponytail hard and fast in the trees behind me, spent five minutes figuring out what exactly I’d done to myself and another 10 minutes trying to set myself free. I’m not sure crashing through the bushes looking for an abandoned gravesite is the ideal European holiday for a 23 year old, but Peppa certainly enjoyed that moment.

There was even less evidence of a cemetery here; some old stones markers and a few scattered boulders. Gottlieb and Wilhelmina’s last resting place.

It was a fascinating day, and we will go home knowing we’ve experienced the churches, graveyards and town squares of our Prussian ancestors.

And a little more of the Polish countryside than we’d anticipated.

The most logistically complex road trip ever

The most logistically complex road trip ever

I’m leaving for the airport at 5am in the morning to fly to Melbourne, and I haven’t packed yet. It’s ok, I’m not taking much with me. Because once I get to Melbourne, I’m immediately turning around and driving back to Brisbane with my sister Nat, three teenage nieces and a dog.

I’m so excited about travelling again I even ironed my Lorna Jane cargo pants. I’m so excited by a road trip I’m back on my travel blog to record the journey. And I’m so excited about Nat and her family moving to Brisbane, I’m flying from Queensland to Melbourne and driving through three states, two of which are border to border designated Covid hotspots, to cross back into the relatively safe state I left four days previously.

So as much as I’m excited, I’m more than a little nervous. My sister has already hashtagged this #themostlogisticallycomplexroadtripever. We have counted backwards 72 hours from Tuesday to calculate when to do our Covid tests to get us into Queensland. We have checked towns and cities to find all of the clinics that are open early, possibly on a Sunday, that take walk ins. We have scoured the internet for dog friendly accommodation in rural NSW for five people and said dog in peak holiday season.

We’ve downloaded the check-in apps for three different states and connected our Covid vaccination certificates to each, and then emailed our Covid vaccination certificates to ourselves. We’ve mapped out an inland route that has some tourist attractions along the way, but which we now realise doesn’t necessarily take into account possible floods.

Nat has written a list of what can come in the car given there’s precious little space: one small bag for each person plus dog bowl, dog bed, dog food, dog lead, dog poo bags and dog seat hammock. I don’t know what that last one is, but it sounds to me like Tassie is going to be the most comfortable out of all of us.

In between all of this my amazing sister has packed up a household of five people, sorted new school enrolments, sold a house, done her Christmas shopping and continued working. Amazing.

Logistically challenging as this all may be, I’m certain we’re going to have fun. We have playlists and card games, we have snacks and stories, we have five wicked senses of humour and a collective spirit of adventure.

And most importantly, we have a dog.

Into the jungle

Into the jungle

On this day five years ago I flew to Melbourne. My niece was turning 11 and we were about to embark on an adventure together, just the two of us, to Singapore.

I’d said to Peppa years ago that when she turned 11 I’d like to take her on an overseas holiday somewhere, just the two of us. Perhaps I should have cleared it with my sister first, but I naively thought Peppa would have forgotten I ever said anything. Ha!

When she turned 10 we started planning. I set some rules for what would be the first in a series of trips, one with each of my three nieces.

1. No more than one flight from Australia. This didn’t stop the suggestion from Peppa that we should go to Paris, or the follow up from Goldie three years later that perhaps we could give Brazil a whirl.

2. The destination had to be somewhere I’d been before. I needed some sort of familiarity given that I was taking my sister’s children out of the country.

3. It should be a country where people spoke a different language. We were not going to Hawaii to lie on the beach.

Peppa and my trip to Singapore was filled with miles of walking, cable cars, hawker stalls, Universal studios, dumplings and one terrifying ride on a chairlift. We finished every day at the chocolate shop near our hotel, drinking hot chocolate and sharing some amazing chocolate creation.

Peppa’s trip was where I learnt the benefits for me. When I came up with this idea, I thought about how interesting it would be for the girls to travel, how much they could learn about another culture, the fun in trying new foods and using different money. But during the six days with my funny, laid back niece (oh, dear God, did I mention funny?), the real value of the trip became apparent. Spending so much time together, getting to really know each other, forming that special Aunty-niece bond; that was priceless.

Goldie and my trip to Tokyo was a whirlwind of temples, cherry blossoms, sushi, bike rides and 12 non-stop hours at Disneyland. My insightful, independent, stylish niece led the way through the crowded streets, mastering the money, the trains and the souvenir shops far better than me. Another beautiful Aunty-niece bond was cemented over croissants every morning and internet quizzes every night (FYI I know exactly what Harry Potter character, what small dog, and what colour fairy I am).

Today, five years later, I’m back in Melbourne for the third and final trip. Somehow the rules have stretched a little for my youngest niece Lulu. We need to take three flights to get to final destination, and it’s somewhere I’ve never been before. We’re off to Borneo: into the jungle for a river safari. Orangutans, monkeys and elephants are on our agenda. Lulu is curious and adventurous, so this ought to be one wild ride.

I’m a little sad that this will be the last trip. But then, this has all been my idea. There’s nothing to stop me coming up with another idea.

I was thinking I could do a go around as they each turn 18. Or perhaps they could take me.